Have you ever opened your mouth and brought words into life that you really wish would have stayed in your head. One of the greatest things we can learn in conflict management or positive relationship building is the power of the pause. It is in the pause we find space to consider what might be fairer in that moment than the heat we are feeling. More than rightness, the Spirit of God is concerned with fairness. This is often something that sets apart earthly wisdom from heavenly wisdom. 

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